Saturday, 28 January 2017

बेटी -एक प्यार भरा रिश्ता 


 एक ऐसा रिश्ता ऐसी कहानी 
जिसकी ना है कोई जुबानी 
 दोस्ती , मोह और प्यार से भरा 
जो कभी किसीको ना अखरा 
चाहे दिल हो या दिमाग 
 इसको चाहिए सभी का साथ 
माँ पापा भाई बहन 
 या हो कोई दोस्त या फ्रेंड 
गरीब हो या अमीर 
 जिसको लागे नहीं कोई फ़कीर 
 जिसके दिल में हो ढेर सारा प्यार 
 ना करे किसीको कभी इनकार 
 छोटे हो या बड़े बूढे 
 सभी के सपने करे प्यार से पूरे 
 जिसका हो ख्वाबो का आशियाना 
 चाहती हो हर ख़ुशी को पाना 
 नए नए बहाने जिसको आए पकाना 
 और कहलाये खुशियो का खज़ाना 
 इसकी ना रहे कोई चाहत अधूरी 
 इससे करे प्यार दुनिया पूरी 
 बनाये ना इससे कोई भी दूरी 
 जिसको हो शौक और खाये पानी पूरी 
 उसी को कहते है हम बिटिया नूरी 





                                   MAKAR SANKRANTI – A KITE FLYING FESTIVAL
                      

                               

DURING THE WINTER PERIOD AND ACCORDING TO  HINDUS CALENDAR , MAKAR SANKRANTI  IS THE MAIN FESTIVAL WHICH IS CELEBRATED EVERY YEAR IN OUR COUNTRY  IN THE MONTH OF JANUARY. IT IS A SEASONAL AS WELL AS RELIGIOUS CELEBRATION CELEBRATED BY ALMOST EVERY HINDU FAMILY. DATE FOR THE SAKRANTI IS SAME AS EVERY YEAR’S DATE I.E. 14TH JANUARY  BUT THE DATE MAY DIFFER SOMETIMES TO 15TH JANUARY. IT’S TOTALLY A FUN FILLED CELEBRATION IN WHICH EACH PERSON WETHER A MAN , WOMAN OR CHILDREN EVERYONE PARTICIPATES EQUALLY. THIS FESTIVAL IS CELEBRATED IN MANY STATES OF OUR COUNTRY BUT MAJORLY  IT HAS A SIGNIFICANCE IN RAJASTHAN…..



SANKRANTI IS A KITE FLYING FESTIVAL AND MAJORLY IT IS CELEBRATED IN RAJASTHAN  IN WHICH PEOPLE GET THE KITES OF DIFFERENT SHADES AND VARIETIES AND THE MANJHA AND SADDA DAY BEFORE SAKRANTI…. SOME OF THE KITES ARE NAMED AS PATTIDARA , GLASSDARA ETC ARE MADE UP OF PAPER AND PANNI..KITES- IT MEANS PATANG… WE NORMALLY CALL KITES AS PATANG….MANJHA IS BASICALLY MANUFACTURED FROM BAREILLY AS IT IS THE MAIN CENTRE FOR THE MANUFACTURING OF MANJHAS…..CITY OF JAIPUR IS THE MAIN CENTRE FOR GETTING THE KITES AND MANJHAS FOR THE FESTIVE SEASON….. ON THIS DAY EVERY FAMILY HAS A FOOD WHICH INCLUDES KHICHDI-AMTI , TIL K LADDOO , FEENI IN SWEETS …… IN THE MORNING WOMEN OF THE HOUSE FOLLOW ALL THE RITUALS BY DOING POOJA AND  GIVE AWAY THE OBJECTS TO 13 WOMEN THEY CAN BE MARRIED AND UNMARRIED AS WELL WHICH THEY HAVE CHOSEN AND THIS IS CALLED AS KALAPNA….

                                                       


ON THE DAY OF SANKRANTI PEOPLE  GETS UP EARLY IN THE MORNING AND GOES TO THE TERRACE TO FLY THE KITES… BEFORE FLYING IT IS NECESSARY TO TIE THE KITES WITH THE MANJHAS OR SADDAS WHICH IS COMMONLY KNOWN AS TANG DAALNA….EVEN AFTER THIS PEOPLE LOVE AND ENJOYS FLYING THE KITES WHICH ARE CUTTED AND  HAVE FLAYED….USUALLY MOST OF THE FAMILIES PUT A SETUP OF MUSIC SYSTEM WITH BIG SPEAKERS…. WHILE FLYING THEY ALL HAVE LUNCH THERE ONLY…. 

WOMEN ALSO JOIN THEM IN FLYING KITES…. EVERY SINGLE MEMBER OF THE FAMILY IS AVAILABLE THERE ON THE TERRACE GOSSIPING SHOUTING ENJOYING THE FESTIVAL…..FOR KIDS SADDA IS PREFFERED TO FLY THE KITES AS IT DOESNOT HARM THE CHILDREN AND DON’T PROVIDE WITH ANY CUTS WITHIN THE FINGERS…. WO KATA , PENCH LADANA ARE SOME OF THE WORDS WHICH ARE USED WHILE FLYING KITES…WHILE FLYING KITE AND WITH THE USE OF MANJHA WE USUALLY GET THE CUT WITHIN FINGERS… AND USE WHITE TAPES TO COVER IT…. EARLIER WHEN THE KITES WERE TORED OR ARE RIPPED PEOPLE USED POTATO TO STICK THEM AGAIN BUT NOW WHITE OR COLOURED TAPES ARE AVAILABLE IN THE MARKET TO STICK IT AGAIN… 


 AS SOON AS THE DAY IS COMING TO AN END , IN EVENING PEOPLE SETS UP A BONFIRE ALONG WITH CRACKERS , MUSIC SYSTEMS AND ENJOYS BY DANCING SINGING….. NOWADAYS SOME MORE NEW AND EXCITING THINGS ARE ADDED TO IT LIKE USE OF LANTERNS… IF WE LOOK UP AT THE SKY WE CAN SEE THAT THE SKY IS FULL OF STARS IN FORM OF LANTERNS….
AND EVERY HOUSE  MEMBER IS PERFORMING THIS ACTIVITY SO GRACEFULLY THAT IT MAKES IT MORE BEAUTIFUL AND FANTABULOUS…. AT THE END FAMILIES GO OUT FOR DINNERS WITH THEIR LOVED ONES,THEIR SIBLINGS OR COUSINS… THIS IS THE WHOLE DAY ENJOYMENT WHICH WE DO BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE SO INTRESTED IN THIS FESTIVAL THAT THEY STARTS FLYING OR FLAYING THE KITES ONE OR TWO MONTHS BEFORE THE SANKRANTI..






MAKAR SANKRANTI IS A FESTIVAL FULL OF CELEBRATIONS AND ENJOYMENT IN THE FORM OF FLYING THE KITES , ENJOYING MUSIC , WATCHING OTHERS FLYING AND HAVING A FIGHT BETWEEN DIFFERENT KITES… EVERYONE WITH THE SAME EXCITEMENT SHOUTS WO KAATA….. IT’S A FUN FILLED FESTIVAL WHICH CAN BE ENJOYED BY EACH AND EVERY PERSON OF THE FAMILY….ALONG WITH THIS WE SHOULD TAKE CARE OF ONE THING WHICH IS MAJORLY AFFECTED AT THE TIME OF THIS FESTIVAL I.E. BIRDS… BECAUSE OF THIS MANJHA AND KITES , BIRDS ARE REALLY AFFECTED AND HARMED… WE SHOULD ONLY USE SIMPLE SADDA AND MANJHA , NO USE OF CHINESE MANJHA SHOULD BE THERE….. IT’S NOT ONLY ABOUT BIRDS BUT IT CAN HARM HUMAN BEINGS ALSO WHO ARE TRAVELLING OR RIDING BIKES OR SCOOTERS.
                                      
                                         

                                                       HOW TO BE HAPPY IN LIFE

The following is not a magical formula for happiness but if you followed these steps they could have a dramatic change on your happiness levels.

KNOW WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY...
If you want to be happy then you should first know what makes you happy. Try to visualize the thing that can make you happy if you managed to get it and upon finding that thing fight for it, and I really mean it, fight for it until you get it.

POSITIVE THINKING...
You may have asked yourself the question could I feel happy while having a major problem that I don't have a solution to? 
Yes you can, by knowing that one day this problem will be solved. This is what called positive thinking, optimism or hope. Learning how to be a positive thinker will open the door to hope and in turn to happiness.







HAPPINESS AND LIFE PURPOSE...
Having a life purpose may not make you happy on its own but not having a life purpose could make your life miserable. Many people commit suicide because they don't know why they are here or what they should do in this world. If you want to be happy then seriously consider finding a life purpose.




HAPPINESS IS LOVE...
Having loving friends,a loving partner or a loving family could dramatically affect your happiness levels. When surrounded by love your big problems tend to be smaller and your life becomes happier.








INCREASING YOUR HAPPINESS LEVELS...
If you already knows what makes you happy and if it's something that is within your reach then know that sharing this experience with someone else will make you feel even happier. Have you tried to compare the feelings you experience when watching the same movie with close friends? 
Most probably you will discover that when you watched it with your friends you felt happier, share your experiences to experience more happiness.